I sometimes with that my sitch was going down hill faster. I wish she would leave and stop giving me a little bit of hope. I feel like I am doing a lot of the right things; standing up for myself and my kids, calling her out on her behaviour, etc. I just can't seem to turn the corner. Maybe that's where patience comes in.
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Make sure you know the reasons she is backing off. It is not always as you would think. Just keep an open mind on what she might be thinking about.
Believe me, I know it's not always as I might think. Mind reading never works. We both have to work at it if we're going to make it. She has to prove some things to me, also.
I am in a much better place now than I have been in months. However, it is still not such a good place.
