Thanks, as always, for your support in my sitch and for posting on my thread. It is always good to hear from you, even when you aren't feeling so good yourself.
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started sobbing talking to my mom today. She said I need to let go because I am still in love with my W. She said that the way I am being treated is wrong, and that I need to let go before this destroys me.
I agree with her. I thought I was, but I guess not. I am just in a terrible place with what seems no way out yet.
You know that you're mom is right. It doesn't make it any easier to put in action. We have all been told the same thing here many times. You have to let her go. If , sometime in the future there is any type of reconciliation or even co-parenting relationship, you have to let go before you can start to really heal and get on with your life. The life you will have as a great father with your kids.
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As for dating, I don't think I ever want to be in another relationship ever. I would rather be lonely and by myself then to go through what I have experienced with my STBXW. I don't think I am H material for any woman.
I find myself thinking the same way. Then again, don't you miss the feeling of companionship with someone of the opposite sex? I know I do. It's not just sex, either; it's everything that comes with it. I sometimes don't know if I will ever be able to trust anyone again and I don't know if I would get married any time soon, but I do miss it . You know what I mean? I know how you feel. We're sure not getting it from our W now. It's way off in the future, just don't slam the door shut on those future possibilities.
As always, take care of yourself and be the best dad your kids could ever hope for!
