The four phases of reconciliation:

- let go of negative feelings

- become friends again

- rekindle romance

- commit to each other


Sounds like you both are getting there. Awareness is a big deal.

Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.