Mine, too, Mila. And I have the same questions as well. Of course they should have let us know what they were unhappy about! The one time I did ask my H why he hadn't, he said "because I didn't think it could be fixed." He didn't tell me what "it" was, so I don't know whether it was something in him, or something in me. If the latter, he really had no right to judge whether it could be fixed or not, but I didn't pursue it. I suppose it doesn't really matter at this point, anyway, since he is gone, and I'm working on what I want to work on, whether it's "it" or not.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man