That stinks, sorry to hear. Lurk and learn. My H had an EA 5 years ago also and now is in MLC... something to think about, I believe he had started in MLC back then and I stopped him. He was so scared of losing me - and now he has had 5 years to get used to the idea.

Positive Lifetime Attitude Award: http://tinyurl.com/2dssttf

H in MLC?: http://tinyurl.com/23fabv8

Infidelity: Expose or Not? http://tinyurl.com/26ksmfj