Do you mean take a sledgehammer to it like just get rid of it yourself? Or do you mean take a sledgehammer to it to make a big scene? BEcause I"m all for taking care of it yourself. I'm not into trying to make a point to him. I'm at the point where I am trying to realize that my H will not admit he is abusive, no matter how I try to explain it to him or make a point. OH, and I've had it to such a point that I"m considering talking to domestic violence lawyers. He's too hurtful to me and to our son.
