Lunch went well. She talked I, for once, actually listened. It was so difficult to talk to her as strange as it may be. I was so nervous and didn't want to say the wrong things.
We did get side steped once or twice, but I just agreed and moved the quickly moved the subject to something else. She kept questioning me on why I would stare at her. I told her cause she was cute, but the "whatever" came right out of her mouth.
I didn't argue about it, just tried to convey it to her that she was.
I hope this went well.
Well done, you. And realize that she will NOT believe any of the changes in you for a while. She's been a student of history, Cajun, and she is cautious. She's learned to be cautious. So cut her slack there. For YOUR PART, you must not backslide. You must be consistently a good listener, a validator, a strong man, a smart man, a Good man. Greek
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