Well I dodged the bullet last night! We ended up having a very pleasant conversation when I got home from work, no R talk at all, just day to day stuff, looked at some grad photos, showed her again how to find things on her computer.
She then had another bike ride at 7pm (she's training for a 100 mile ride in 2 wks) told her to have a good time and be safe. She got in around 9:15 or so which is normal, called and told me she was on her way home. we then went to bed, talked about her ride and other non-R talk - was actually very enjoyable and went to sleep.
It was interesting that the subject of sex came up this afternoon in a round about way - it's been 10 weeks since we've been intimate - I told her that I was always good to go, she replied that she also was just about to that point as well - very surprising comment coming from her - almost shocked me.! I think I will try to test those waters in the next evening or so?
And really Greek, I take your advice to heart, it's been spot on and while no two stich are identical, there's enough overlap in them to sort out what you need to do - as long as you keep your head up and your eyes on the prize - fixing me and drawing her back!
Thanks,
DD
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Same roof, different beds
"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."