Ken, if you get one for YOU and your wife or kids are there he can't go near your kids or your wife either...
If you have one then he has to stay AWAY from you and everything that YOU SURROUND yourself with.. are you THINKING here?
Ken.. go GET IT and STOP making EXCUSES... its a STATEMENT to have one.. the OM will have that on FILE after that and you GETTING one may just SCARE HIM OFF on its OWN... if he KNOWS you have the POLICE filing stuff on him he may just BACK OFF
Use your HEAD KEN... go GET IT and STOP RATIONALIZING to make excuses for your inaction...
GO DO IT...
Good comment on the making nests in the hair... I love it!