Please put a stop to these spiralling thoughts. It will get you nowhere. I speak from experience here, bitter experience. I know how you must miss the husband you thought you had, but he is under the influence of his addiction, and nothing will change until that changes. He needs professional help. You cannot help him now, except to make sure you are okay. Because if you go down, there is no knowing the kind of guilt he will feel once the addiction is beaten. He only thinks this is what he wants. So, until all is won, you must find a way to GAL, live for yourself.

Telling him what you know will make no difference at all.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim