I don't know if it is relief. I didn't mean to sound upbeat! I am just prepared for this I think.

You won't find me in the "Divorced but not done" thread, that's for sure! I mean who knows in the future but I am not hoping or pursuing or anything. Divorce is what it takes for me to DROP the ROPE.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004