"OK, let's meet at the house at 6pm on Mon and we can go through the household items to divide. Please make arrangements with your roommate to watch DD that day."
and then don't bring up the school stuff?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again