Well actually I have the documentation on her, she messaged 1st on facebook asking about how to gently handle the D, sent the nasty gun letter to sister, and another email to my sister as well. She also went to my Dad's church took pictures of DD1 off the wall and regarding OM W she has much information as to her reckless behavior and offered to help on that.

In addition to that I have copied her facebook and fake-maybe real Boyfriends page as it contains craziness which I am sure is there to hurt me.

The Facebook page of her new BF saids they are in a open relationship and that he is into BDSM and other horrible things. There are pics of him with Tattoos all up and down his arms etc.. I have no idea how real this is, but the fact is it is public domain and was not blocked obviously so I can see it and get upset. Well I copied the pages, The Facebook messages etc.. And it does show she intiated.

Regarding CPS I called 1st to the worker and advised what therapist told me to do. I also let the worker know what was said regarding threats to my other daughter and that she said she really bought a gun, tho she has told CPS worker that the nasty letter to my sister she didnt really get one and apologized for sending it.

She seems to keep digging a deeper and deeper hole, and now I am definitely dark and will remain that way.

I do still have hope she can get help maybe, but it maybe have to be a stipulation for custody or something I dunno. My Sister seems to think I have too much ammo on my side including her financial backing to lose this case.

I know she has no money really, no car, no good work record and has shown to be very unstable.

Opinions?


M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on