FAIR WARNING... There very nearly certainly WILL be one or a few more incidents with OW. If he does a no contact call or letter, there will probably be a rebound "closure" contact incident, for instance. And later, some other test. Be prepared. Choose to accept the risk. Stick to your boundary. He'll need to reaffirm his commitment to no contact and take corrective action. He has to learn how to be monogomous again. It takes time. Give him a chance to learn, but stick to your boundaries. Any transgressions are NOT OK. But you can work through and past them together.
