still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Thank you all for your comforting words by the way! Really, the separation kind of made this transition to divorce easier I hate to admit. My life isn't going to change much. I will keep my last name for awhile and be "ms." instead of "mrs." I will talk to my principal about switching schools possibly for a fresh start.

Now I can call WH my exH. I didn't know what to call him when people had to ask me about him, like when I explained to the doctor that I caught my cold from...my "husband." Or the daycare people. I just called him "S's father."