think maybe if there is any doubt, your W may feel like she has no other recourse but to push forward w/D. Sort of like she said it, can't take it back, regardless of how she may be feeling. Does that make sense?
I said this months ago: It was hard for her to leave and it would be even harder for her to swallow her pride and come back.
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If W is speculating about the possibility of reconciling, that seems indicative that she isn't entirely convinced that she's making the right decision.
She emailed yesterday stating she wanted to take the kids to the shore again. She asked if this weekend was OK eben though it's fathers day. I could believe she had the balls to ask for this weekend after I mothers day., I UNKNOWINGLY planned a trip with the kids and friends on mothers day. One of my friends pointed out to me that it was mothers day weekend, so I changed the weekend. So now she is taking them for the Fourth.
RNM, I didn't have to deal with an affair so we differ on that aspect, but I totally agree with you on the point of being the one who wants out now.
In the response email to the weekend, I also stated that I had an appraiser come out last week and will have a realtor come out soon to figure out the house's value. She didn't respond to this onformation at all.
Ho did I mention that her Bro and SIL want to have me over their place to hang out?
After seeing what's out there in the dating field why would I want to go back to someone who is so negative? I honestly do not even entertain the idea of getting back together anymore.
It's almost like she once told me: You had your chance.
I hope she enjoys her life with her girl friend who will drop her like she did in the past.
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