Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

Well, I delivered a similar message to my W. I basically laid it on the line that as much respect that I have for her I wouldn't cross any lines which she has done. I can't work on this marriage knowing that she is not willing. I've reached by boiling point and now i'm acting out of anger. I don't get angry in front of her but my anger is making this easier to deal with.

I'm going to let nature takes it course. I'm hoping that what i've read about EA is that once the OM and her don't have myself in the equation it will come to a sreeeching hault. If not I'll have to be ok with her having this relationship. Either way, I can't keep putting myself through this roller coster ride.