Well Steve I can tell you I'm not hiding anything from her. I understand why you are so skeptical, you being a cheated on spouse. You are probably right in saying that I don't know myself well enough to fix this, b/c I would have never thought I was capable of doing this to my wife in the first place.
What are you asking here:
"what if this woman tells her husband and your wife that the two of you never actually stopped from way back when and this has been going on and off sexually for years. She's fabricating and i was doing it out of fear wouldn't mend my broken heart. would your wife accepts those answers?"
I mean no true justification. What I typed was my thinking then, trying to tell you the story to explain where I was coming from and the stupid thought process I was using.
Me: FWH 35 Wife: BS/Love of My Life 31 Children: Son - 3yrs & One on the Way DDay1 3/9/09 EA DDay2 2/25/10 SPa w/same XOw