(I guess she didn't take my keys - I just couldn't find them.) She had gone to the store. I told her I was sorry. She said, "For what?" I said, "For whatever I have done." She reminded me that she didn't ask OM to come to her work and the door is open and that she HAS asked him not to go there. She also reminded me of my past mistakes again and she says that I don't love her. She says she doesn't want him and she doesn't want me. She said, "Go find another wife." At that point, I left for work.
Ken, this is what happens when you lead with an apology to a wayward wife. It's supplicating and it doesn't work.
You have already owned your part with her, if I remember your back-thread correctly (and I've read every post you've ever written). To KEEP bringing up how sorry you are for your contributions to the dysfunction in your marriage, PRECISELY NOW WHEN SHE IS EXHIBITING SUCH POOR BEHAVIOR, is only going to serve to ENABLE and JUSTIFY her affair choices.
