So questionb for this wonderful people on the boards. Is this normal? Is it normal to defend someone who right now feelsis trying to D me. Eric
Hey DaddyO, Great Question, not sure....but I did and do the very same thing to this day.
Last summer right after the bomb, I told my MIL in a fit of anger that my W had an A, and I had to physically step inbetween my W and my MIL. I thought my MIL was going to smack her daughter, probably would have if I hadn't stepped in and started defending my W.
Also, as recently as Sunday at church, I was trying to explain to a close friend what my W was going through, yes I was defending her.
So I guess it is natural or normal to want to care for and defend your W, whom you still love.
Hang in there Eric.
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