My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

(I guess she didn't take my keys - I just couldn't find them.) She had gone to the store. I told her I was sorry. She said, "For what?" I said, "For whatever I have done." She reminded me that she didn't ask OM to come to her work and the door is open and that she HAS asked him not to go there. She also reminded me of my past mistakes again and she says that I don't love her. She says she doesn't want him and she doesn't want me. She said, "Go find another wife." At that point, I left for work.

I have asked her what it would take for our relationship to work. And she says that she would have to get amnesia so she could forget what a bad husband I was. How I moved her from one state to another when she didn't want to move, how I wasn't showing enough care and concern when the kids were born, how I chatted with other women and did porn (which I did for a brief time I'm very ashamed to say). I have to own up to that - because her memories of these things is apparently where my problem lies.

The good news is - it seems that she is starting to see the OM for who he really is. But she is unwilling to get a protective order on him because she doesn't want to hurt his reputation.