Should I Tell Her to Move On???

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I know were suppose the believe nothing what the WAW says and only half of what we see, but am I wrong to think it's over after 10 months being apart and I asked straight out if she want a D and she say yes?

I learned not to ask H questions like this. Seems like when I don't say anything about it, H doesn't say that he wants D. H has done very, very little to get the D that he wants. He has said he wants D, but doesn't do much toward it. I'm not even sure that he's actually filed.

Me: Is this the best thing for us?
W: Yes

Again, I wouldn't ask questions like this. Your W said that she wants D. I think maybe if there is any doubt, your W may feel like she has no other recourse but to push forward w/D. Sort of like she said it, can't take it back, regardless of how she may be feeling. Does that make sense?

W: Even if we did get back together things would only go back to the way they were. We bring out the worst in each other.

Me: Agreed and validated.

What's a guy to do?

Now this part is good. If W is speculating about the possibility of reconciling, that seems indicative that she isn't entirely convinced that she's making the right decision. Your response was good.