"she is trying to crucify me."

Yes, she is. And everytime she runs out of nails, you hand her a new one, in cold hard black and white documentation via email....removing any chance of arguing that it's a "he said/she said" kind of thing....

You are about as done with this woman as a frozen steak is done....your last email to her just screams how UNdone you are...

lather, rinse, repeat....

I'll be surprised if either of you retains parental rights with this history of repeated defiance of court orders.

I could make suggestions, but it just raises my blood pressure.
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I dunno, I will throw out there that maybe it would help you to do some research on borderline personality disorder to get a clue what you're dealing with. And to stay off the "sauce"...it obviously causes you to make decisions that detrimentally impact your life....if you need help to stay off...get it.