I didn't believe it inmy heart until yesterday. I figured there might have been an EA but found no proof. Not even then MC (and she asked directly in joint and solo) believed there was a PA. So I went with EA as I knew she was detached from me for sure. You can only get the kind of smug happiness she displays from at least an Emotional Attachment (EA) if not a real Emotional Affair (EA with dating potential) Those are my definitions not yours. Our history includes ME being an EA to her. I was her support while her last R crumbled. Yeah, I know. "Those who are ignorant of history are bound to repeat it" My Poli Sci Degree letting me down again, eh?
The flowers were my idea of a 180. I simply couldn't do nothing. I couldn't think of or find a card that was neutral enough. I wish I'd heard from you sooner. Time to backpedal, I guess. Or confront depending on how tonight goes. Thanks.