I've decided to let her go. If OM is what she wants then so be it. I have found peace in all of this and it's brought my son and I closer together. I'm starting to GAL and it feels good. 3 months of heartache and pain, but I'm finally starting to feel normal.
FFH,
So long as you COMMUNICATE to her (via something very close to Robx's script above) that you're "letting her go," that's great. My experience on these forums tells me that when I read someone post what you just did, it's code for "Rather than deliver that message, which is uncomfortable for me, I've decided to just not say or do anything. It is what it is."
What is your plan to communicate to her your done-ness?
