Hey D4ML, don't panic--this is going to be part of what you will have to go through.
No matter WHAT Forrest and you are discussing, your H doesn't "know" what it is. What your H is, is very, very sensative. Very--he is more emotional than you, and can "smell" change just by looking at you.
So he doesn't "know", but he knows there is "something" going on. He has seen you lately and there has been movement on your part. He notices and sees everything about that and you.
That's why it's imparative to get you into a better mind set--he will be intrigued by a better attitude, and repulsed by a negative/angry/depressed mindset.
The chances of him coming to THIS website and seeing THIS thread and reading about himself HERE are very remote--I have seen it happen (mostly when the couple is still in the same place and the H or W snoops), but again--very, very rare.
If he found this, it would be a sign he is intrigued. He'll never snoop into your life if he's repulsed.
So do you think he's snooping? good!! Progress!!
You are doing SOoo much better--and it's getting "movement". It's nothing to fear--you have to face it and progress makes it come.
There is a "Field of Dreams" analagy in here somewhere--if you "think movement", it will come.
