And here I am .... H's MLC ....

[MHL]

Seeing as we're not in a place where we're 'working on us' and this is supposed to be time he's using for himself, I'm choosing to not dwell on it.
PEI

Esay to say, even easy to choose, hard to do.

.....that is to not dwell on it.

Trying the same approach, but difficult....today is easier than yesterday.

The intimacy thing seems like such a big step (not a baby step) in our sitches. And in a healthy M, intimacy is huge but in this sitch it is another baby step.....well maybe just a little bigger than a baby step.

The frustrating thing is you want to see that next positive sign, you want to link one to another to another and just keep it going, build momentum. That is where the patience is required....soooo hard sometimes to wait for the next positive sign, thus the focusing on yourself and making yourself a better person.