Thanks, Greek. I'll definitely post either way. I've decided that I'm going to use this thread as a kind of journal. I figure if I just put it "out there" then hopefully I'll get the support and advice I need. I'm second guessing myself too much. For today I just want to confirm if she in fact went to her moms. I'm going to follow her from work in a non-descript vehicle. I want to make sure she's going directly yto moms or stopping "somewhere with somebody' first. BTW, the house smelled like a perfume factory this morning. And she's wearing her 'old favorite' that I got her a year ago.