Should I say something like:

"I'm good with dividing the small stuff without getting the lawyers involved but based on what happened with the temp support agreement I have little trust in what gets decided now and then changed later.

Same goes for DD's school- these decisions will affect her and I'd rather discuss them directly. Hopefully we can put our differences aside and do the right thing for her."

...or not? or should I just let it go through the lawyers. I'm so conflicted.

Last edited by StupidRomeo; 06/15/10 01:59 PM.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again