Not sure I know what I'm doing-help?

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Yes, it would. And "how to do that undectected" (my vehicles are easy to spot) came to me last night. Here goes nothing.

If if if you discover that she is lying about birthday with Mom, do NOT confront until you come here for one of the experienced guys - Puppy, Gucci, Rob, Alan ~ to help you go forward with what to do next. They've said a gozillion times on here that you will only have ONE SHOT at confronting and you have to make that count. I would hate for you to blow it in a moment of (justifiable) rage. So don't do anything until you get some counsel.

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