Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreciate it. I'm confused though. If you read the last two pages most of the advice was to do everything through the lawyers based on the past history (her lawyer backing out last min saying we had no agreement when in fact we did) and the fact that so far I've just been doing whatever she asked for whenever.

That's why I told her to make a list of everything she wants and send it to the lawyers so I can start dictating stuff. If I change my story now and tell her to come and take whatever little items she wants then I'll look wishy washy. Also, she's now going through the lawyers (or is she asking if we should?) about the school issue.

Any thoughts?