Just in case you're wondering, no, my head is not in the sand. I know there are several possibilities for why my H seems to have cooled a bit towards me.
1. He's trying to back off and clear his head and do what he said he wanted/needed to do, and/or he's trying to do the right thing and not engage in physical intimacy while he says he doesn't love me.
2. He's fukcing her.
Seeing as we're not in a place where we're 'working on us' and this is supposed to be time he's using for himself, I'm choosing to not dwell on it. I'm doing what I said and not acting on feelings/beliefs/thoughts ... only on what I KNOW for sure. Confirmation at this point could very well send me over the edge so I am not pursuing it. All will be revealed as I am ready for it and strong enough to deal with it from a place of peace, not anger.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
