Eric, as I told you last night ... I defended my H (not excused) to my friends and family right from the beginning. I recently stood up to my mother again and explained that we've all loved H for 15 years and for those 15 years he has been a good husband, father, SIL, BIL and friend. I told them that our situation was made by both of us and I would not let them demonize him. He is hurting.
He needs to do what he needs to do and this is our marriage and I need to be supported for the choices I make related to it.
I too think that your behaviour exemplifies unconditional love and compassion. You're a gem
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
