Ken, if your wife makes an issue about you posting to a divorce busting forum to protect your chidlren and save your marriage at this point I would just chuckle at her and walk away...

Seriously Ken, don't even entertain an argument from this woman on that one... She's just trying to manipulate you into a subservient position and is exploiting your willingness to please her....

There is NO FREAKIN WAY she can make this out to be some betrayal right now... Just laugh at her if she has nothing less than respect for your maturity and commitment.