SCh,

Yes, it seems that their selfishness knows no bounds.

The only thing I cannot wrap my head around is that they seem to have no real concern about their children and their feelings and how their actions affect them.

If it turns out that H never returns to me I pray to God that he returns to the children.

You know, I lived through my parents splitting up when I was a kid and I swore that I would not have this happen to my kids if I was blessed to have them.

When I met my H he had taken custody of his two children from his previous M because their mom at the time was having a hard time dealing with them. Now this was the kind of man I thought would always put the welfare of his children first. How could I have been so wrong? He believes that since he is financially supporting them that he's doing all he needs to do.

(((Hugs)))