thanks for your replies, goodfight I somehow think that they recycle right back to the beginning and their whole lives are just one massive cyle, beginning to end and back again, we will never know, as it really been 13 years for you that you have been separated, forgive me if I misunderstood. Forward I dont give it two weeks, it as been six weeks since he contacted me and six months since he contacted his aunt, he just seems to be wanting to be left alone with his wifey, oh dear oh dear. way too much fun approaching for me to worry about his sorry little life, bless him xxxxxxx p.s. wonder if he will remember this is the day he broke the news to me, mmmmm I wonder
Hi Mandy! I doubt he will remember this day --- it would bring up far too much guilt. I'm glad son is hanging out with grandparents. I doubt he would've been happy staying with OW. I predict it will be some time before he contacts son again (he and wifey are somehow offended by something), or his aunt (if ever). That wifey of his is like the devil on his shoulder, whispering in his ear. Sometimes, his brain clears, but mostly it remains fogged with her sense of reality.
GF, thanks for the prayers. I appreciate each and every one said on my behalf.
Have fun with the friends.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
BeingMe, I hear you my friend, may I take this opportunity to wish you every good wish in the universe on the healing of your brain tumors, may god be with you. and oh yes I intend to have fun with my friends, 5 long days of sun, sea, sand and of course plenty of alcohol xxx
well what can I say, everything was fine and then wam my father got admitted to hospital on sunday, he has pneumonia, chest infection and fluid on the lungs,he is also diabetic and his sugar count was six times the normal he was heading for a diabetic coma. ex texted and asked son if he was going driving with him and son being upset over grandad didnt respond, son was on facebook later on and so was ex, ex asked son why he hadnt responded to his message and he said something bad had happened but wouldnt tell ex what, so the lovely ex decided that after six weeks no contact to me to text me at midnight to find out what was wrong with son, I told him about my dad, to my surprise his reply was "sorry to hear about your dad, let me know if you need anything at all" very kind of him I thought, but would I really ask ex for anything at all, I dont dispute that I think deep down if I asked ex for anything to do with an emergency like this that he would be there for us, but could I really ask him for help after all I do his aunties shopping and he doesnt talk to me, oh well my only concern at this time is that my dad pulls through and gets fit and well again xxx
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