mish, you did good. It was either that or living in fear she would pursue him long enough to have him change his mind. You would end up caught in another one of this stupid sitches we see all the time. Only THIS time it would be you putting yourself into it. You chose not to. You chose not to throw away all the things you've accomplished the last years. Good job. I agree with OT. His reaction is nothing but a well thought decision. He just reacted to a ...surprise. He didnt expect you to set boundaries. You are giving him a lot to think about and that was a move of a someone who respects herself. Bravo! Hugs K
