still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

OK he started the paperwork on 5/14 I guess. So tonight I was busy starting to paint the bathroom, installing childproof latches (attempted), trying to set up the damn printer but disconnected the internet somehow in the process.

I truly needed help with a couple of things. So he put S to bed, fixed the latch in 2 minutes (IT TOOK ME 30 MINUTES!!!!) and reinstalled all the computer stuff for the internet connection to be re-established. Then said "just a minute, I'll be right back."

He went to his car and returned with a purple file folder. He sat down on the couch and said he had some things to go over with me (? WHY NOT SAY I HAVE THE DIVORCE PAPERS???). Everything was there. He got choked up and so did I, but I said "well I'm ready to move on and date." He told me to take my time looking over the paperwork.

Then he said he was moving to my town, on the other side, renting a house with HER!! SHE IS GOING TO LIVE IN MY TOWN!

I told him I wanted to move to the next town sometime next year. (I wanted to before I found out he was moving here)He said well we need to think about school districts (for S). I said well I'll probably be married by then and we'll figure that out later. Who knows where I will be at that point.

(seriously-does he actually think I am going to be staying in one spot forever?)

Then he said "I know you want me to leave." I said "well if there is anything else you need to say you can." "no."
I said it was too bad we had to have a son brought into this mess. He said yeah, but we will do the best we can. He will be okay.

I asked him when he will get his stuff. He said in a couple of weeks. (I will be packing his stuff this weekend- Happy Father's Day! and have it ready for him in the garage.)


So then he left and I called him about a question regarding the parenting plan. Then I texted him to say "you shouldn't let yourself in anymore since you don't live here."

Ah well. I tried! I am improved for my next relationship. He is broken. Ravenly talked to me and gave me some really good support and advice! THANK YOU Ravenly!
It hurts but not as bad as it did if that makes sense. I have closure I guess.



Now I need to find a notary!