(Actually, FWIW, in the same sitch I would insist that a call be made to OW with me on the extension, and for Gabe to tell her quite clearly that he does not want to see her/talk to her/email her/FB her/text her at all, that he wants NO CONTACT, and that he would appreciate it if she would avoid his store. If she didn't respect his wishes, it would be time to look for a new job... A job is NOT an excuse to continue to interact with an A-partner unless one is actively and sincerely looking for a different job.)