antlers it is true that full child custody costs the other parent a lot. I think it's the worst possible financial outcome in a divorce. But more and more courts are trying to assign joint custody for the sake of the kids and I hope that's the case for you. You'll need to fight for it with all you've got starting with getting the right attorney. I'm sorry to push this but it's for your own benefit. Whatever gets decided you'll have to live with it for the rest of your life so do whatever it takes to get the best possible attorney you can find.
Last edited by StupidRomeo; 06/15/1004:50 AM.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again