Two wrongs don't make a right. I don't know why you keep playing with fire (and that is exactly what you are doing by violating the no contact order).
You can be disgusted and angry in private but contacting your W when a court of law has instructed you NOT to under any circumstance is not in your best interest yet you keep doing it.
All a judge is going to see is two immature people that are using Facebook to play games and disrespect and violate the court orders. Yet you want to somehow get custody? THINK!
So far you *had* to contact your W. You *had* to get your message across. There are VERY few things in life we *have* to do. You might want to but you don't have to.
When you are done you are done. The best way to send that message is just move on and refrain from further discussion. You say you don't want to play games yet you send a message that indicates otherwise.
You say you have no ill feelings and the next line you typed was have fun living in sin. If you truly had no ill feelings her living in sin would not ruffle your feathers a bit.
You are very emotionally reactive and each time you give in to the reactivity you are simply putting one last nail in the coffin when it comes court time. Be smart!
