Hi FM, just catching up on your thread... stay strong!
Quote:
It's hard for me to come here and read about beautiful, caring people who want to reconcile with spouses who don't deserve a second (or third or fourth, etc.) chance. Although I still like and love my H, I'm not sure if I'd be willing to overcome my hurt and rejection if it wasn't for the kids. I'm not sure how much of a DBer I consider myself at this point. I'm so grateful for this forum though...and I think about you folks even when I am not posting.
I think DBing is not just to repair our M but also to make us strong and confident and prepared to go down whichever road our lives leave us to walk down. So you are doing a great job DBing... It is giving you the stregnth to know what you want and dont want from your M. And giving you the courage to be a great mom to your kids during a crappy time! be proud of yourself... DBing is not about our WAS, but about us LBS and how we move forward in our lives...
