Interesting discussion. In my opinion there is no right or wrong, everyone is different. But same as the MLC's can get stuck, so can the LBS. If you are growing and living a full life while you are standing then who is to say it's wrong. If you are standing in one spot and suffering and hoping in the process...that can't be healthy.
I'm 52, that in it's self is going to make a difference in my case, I don't have the time to wait for 8 years for something that may or may not happen.
I'm going to live my life and let things happen as they happen. You can't live in the past and you don't know what the future holds, you can only live in the present. I'm standing now and that's all I know.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO