Jack, you are right in the sense that people must make their own decisions in life. If one chooses to stand on their head and gargle peanut butter the rest of their life, that is a choice. Is it right? I suppose its relative like anything else. If someone wishes to stand forever, that is a choice, not a good one IMO, but everyone must do what they think is best. I am merely trying to point out that after a period of time, people should know if someone wants them back or not, after that has been realized, its time to move on, they are causing more harm than good. When someone stands for years with no progress, its time to move on, people can say what they want, but its not going to work out.
