I am way too cautious right now to see it as progress. The last two times he was so cruel on the phone. It is weird though.
I know I should see it as progress but my mind today was in anger mode. NOT once has he asked how far along I was. NOT once has he asked about the due date. I would never deny my baby of a father if he chose to be in his or her life. A baby deserves to know his parents. BUT the cruel words he has said, the fact that he has told me didn't know if he wanted to even recognize the baby as his....I am just in heavy anger today. What a roller coaster of emotions we all on this site go through!!!
If he calls me during work, I will not answer bc I am usually busy and he knows this as well. If he calls in the evening, I will pick up. I do need to tell him about his bills. But I will not stay on the phone for any more harrasment. As soon as that starts, I'll politely end the phone call.
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)
