Just found out she already filed

[ClingingToHope]

Her response is similar to what's happened whenever I've had to deal with STBXW on the D. If it's anything to do with the D she JUMPS at the chance to respond. If it's a scheduling thing with the girls or anything else then it takes a few days to hear anything.

In my case, I've stopped talking about it at all. It's been a month since I heard anything. There are just a few small things I want and I doubt I'll have trouble getting them.

The one big thing I want though is my engagement and wedding rings back. They were my grandmother's. She's already agreed to give them back although she never brings them when we have to meet.

Each time you have one of these interactions the butterflies or anxiety will become less and less. You just get used to it. So will your daughter -- but she'll never like it. Ever.