I agree that there is way too much interaction between you and Dan. Too much "family" time. You guys are divorced. That means that you do not have to answer to him at all anymore. Since when does he get to tell you what to do and how to do it?

And I am just horrified at the emotional abuse he is heaping on the kids. He is doing to them what his mom did to him. It makes me sick. I'm not so sure that it is such a bad thing that Dan doesn't get to spend as much time as he would like with them.

I get sicker still when I think that the kids are simply pawns that he uses to get to you. He is either texting to make sure that you know how wonderful it is for them at his house, or screaming at them and you.

And why in the world does he always feel the need to give you the play-by-play of each and every visit? He's their "FATHER" for f's sake!!

It all just looks like a show to me.