SCH - thanks...I agree, why should he be frustrated with me? I didn't ask him to come and work, he keeps volunteering...or more like pushing himself in. Am I supposed to be grateful and appreciative and helpful? Whenever he decides that he wants to HELP ME? Because that's how I think he sees it, that he is a nice guy and he is HELPING ME. Kind of forgetting that there was 2 of us when we decided to buy a big house, there was 2 of us when we decided to become parents. But now he is gone leaving me with everything and he is being nice because he HELPS ME in the garden....

I guess I'm venting a bit...lol

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO