I've been there Ken... ride it out...

Your wife is an IDIOT if she thinks that guy is gonna be mature enough to commit to ONE WOMAN long term.. she's just a piece of furniture Ken... my couch has more brains than that...

Your wife thinks YOU going to a marriage therapy help forum for advice on how to PROTECT and SAVE a marriage is BAD, but her having an affair and letting this CREEP shove her kids around is romantic and wonderful?

Your wife is on CRACK