Ken.. read Eeyores post today.. he summarized his history and gives you a GREAT demonstration abotu how to fight an affair and NOT PRUSUE.. his wife even invited him for sex and HE REFUSED...
Can YOU do what he's doing here?
THAT's how you handle this Ken.. do what EEyores doing :
Thanks Allen. I'll have to check with the police on what I can do.
Well since W has not been answering her phone, OM went to her work even though her boss has asked her not to come. Her boss is absent and since W take the kids with her to her work, OM ordered my kids out of the room so he could talk to her in private. According to my kids, he was there for quite awhile. W was honest and told me about it and of course, I was a bit upset and asked her why she let him in. She said, "Don't worry, I'll soon have my own place. I'm just waiting for the apartment people to call back." I said, "I just can't believe you're doing this to your own family. And that you are interested in a predator." I went on until she told me to "Shut up." She said, "Do you want to have a pretend relationship?" I told her that I just wanted her to stop having a relationship with OM. And she said, "I'll do what I want."
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
I'll have to check with the police on what I can do.
What are you waiting for?? OM to shove your kids out of the room? or to yell at them??
Dance around with the harassment charges if you insist, but protect those kids!
You have enough for a restraining order...include today's incident with the children. Include anywhere you and kids go, not just your house. If that means he can't go near his own kids school, too bad! KEEP him away from your kids!! He is doing direct damage now!!!!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
BAD NEWS: My wife just discovered my thread! I was working at the computer and left a page open to check on the kids and she saw it. When I came back in, she said, "I see what you've been doing! I'm so tired of you!" I said, "Good, get out then." This is not my day.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
Your wife is an IDIOT if she thinks that guy is gonna be mature enough to commit to ONE WOMAN long term.. she's just a piece of furniture Ken... my couch has more brains than that...
Your wife thinks YOU going to a marriage therapy help forum for advice on how to PROTECT and SAVE a marriage is BAD, but her having an affair and letting this CREEP shove her kids around is romantic and wonderful?
Ken, if your wife makes an issue about you posting to a divorce busting forum to protect your chidlren and save your marriage at this point I would just chuckle at her and walk away...
Seriously Ken, don't even entertain an argument from this woman on that one... She's just trying to manipulate you into a subservient position and is exploiting your willingness to please her....
There is NO FREAKIN WAY she can make this out to be some betrayal right now... Just laugh at her if she has nothing less than respect for your maturity and commitment.
Please don't do what one man did.....and promise the W that he would no longer post on the board. You might be able to register under a different name so she can't find you so easily.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
